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May 26, 2008

THEY DID IT AGAIN!

Filed under: Blogroll, Uncategorized — drpaul @ 6:53 pm

Seldom if ever does Doctor Pual talk about his personal experiences…but I have had similar situations like this happen…A lady called my show and said that she was very happy with a new guy that she had been dating for 3 months and that they had all but moved in together…then her “girlfriends” began to tell her how bad he was for her and she quit dating him…Doctor Paul’s response: “never never listen to your girlfriends when it comes to the subject of men…they are not team players when it comes to men…they are jealous, and want you back in the “pack” so that they can use you to meet guys…she said she now knows but it was too late…after that broadcast a got a number of e-mails from guys all of whom said they were sure that this was their ex calling…wow…what does that tell you…so far 11 guys have e-mailed me saying that was their ex…this happens all the time…ladies if you want to know about your relationship go to a relationship consultant…your “friends” believe that “all is fair in love and war”…you are no longer available to be the “bait” to pick up guys…let me share with you a couple of the e-mails I received…(not the real letters of their first names of course) G wrote: “I am sure this is my ex. Her girlfriends did not like me from the get go. Every time she would see them after work she would have an attitude when she would see me. I got a call after we broke up from one of her “friends” who is no longer her friend (at least not this week)and told me that one of the “pack” said she had dated me ( a lie) and that I was 10 years older than I am. Not only did she lie about that too, but suddenly that lie was on the internet. The girl who called me said she would like to see me for coffee to “tell me more about it”. No way, I don’t trust any of them. Doctor Paul’s reply? “the one that lied about you is a skank, but that is the way it is…T e-mailed: ” That girl who called sounded like my ex. I met her with a group; of girls. I picked her and I think some of the others di not like it. things were great with us until she started to talk to them. They wanted her to go to clubs with them. I can see why, they are all over weight 15-20 pounds and she is only about 7-8 pounds over.So they want her to be the man catcher. Some guy will have the same thing happen to him that happened to me from that herd of buffalo.

Doctor Paul’s reply: “Stay away from those groups of women whose main sport is to trash men.” Ladies, do you see what is going on here? I made the same mistake recently with a group…I did not tell them who I was at first…I danced with one of them several times, and then she asked me to dance with one of her friends…guess why……obviously my mistake…after I danced with that one, she then said something to the first one…the first one then decided that she didn’t want to dance…I saw that one coming…I said, “hey look, I have a show to do in about 1 hour so I am leaving, but I will give you my card”…when the first one saw my card she was suddenly interested, knew who I was and said, “do you have to leave?”…then she gave me her c-phone number…Then Doctor Paul left…did I call her..absolutely not…I got some hang up calls…and guess what she forgot one time to put “private” on the call…I put call block on her…When Doctor Paul is dating he does not go to clubs…but when I am not…well…I do “research”…This is Doctor Paul…May Your Fantasies of Today, Be Your Realities of Tomorrow!”

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May 12, 2008

THEY ARE DOING IT AGAIN!

Filed under: Blogroll, Uncategorized — drpaul @ 2:16 am
This time on the I-net…Doctor Paul just opened an info web site about dating…and the headline was: “How To Win Over A Bad Boy” by Chelsea Kaplan…I am sure you are a very sincere and well meaning person Chelsea…but please…a woman cannot give advice to another woman about a man!…trust me!…and winning over a “bad boy”???…Why Bother???…get real…this article then quotes yet another female who has written a book ( a guide yet) called in part an ornithological guide to men…ornithological???…this as anyone who has visited the bird sanctuary at a zoo will tell you…ornithology is the zoological study of birds…and this book’s author “spent countless years” researching her subject…birds?…you say birds?…I thought this was about bad boys…is this some sort of reach for an analogy regarding men???…now if a male had made the same reference it would be labeled “sexist”…OK even if we pass on that one…our primary author is off and running as to why these “boys” are “bad boys”…I will give her credit for basically identifying them as “players”…of course there are men who are “players”…they are easily identifiable…but guess what ladies…they only exist because there are women too who are players…they may not admit it to their friends….but when they call Doctor Paul they not only admit it they claim to be “cured” and that they will never do that again…want to bet???….if the pain is bad enough they may never do it again…or if they are over 40 and they decide that the game is pretty much over for them…but if they are looking for  “boy toys”…then have at it… I have heard it all…when they call and cry to me about how they have been treated…it is sad…I feel that real emotional pain they are experiencing…so go ahead and research for countless years about “bad boys”…I will make it simple for you…narcissist…go to the dictionary…better yet…go on line and find it…YOU WILL NOT CHANGE PEOPLE….NO ONE…AT BEST WE CAN MODIFY THEIR  BEHAVIOR….just like Pavlov’s dogs…and that is  the narcissistic person…it is all about SELF…the biggest problem with the narcissist is that you are both in love with the same man (or woman)…As I said in the beginning…why bother???…relationships are tough enough without going on a mission to “reform” someone…Finally, many women think that players are great playmates…not really…you see, it’s all about them whether that player is a man or woman…the “I got mine” attitude is what it’s all about…thus the “bad boy” or “bad girl”…they couldn’t care less about your pleasure it is all about them and their ego…this is why you hear both men and women who claim to have had sexual encounters with Celebes and radio and TV personalities…Doctor Paul is no exception…just do a favor for me ladies…if you are going to claim it…call me and do it first…just to keep yourselves honest…This is Doctor Paul…”May Your Fantasies of Today be your Realities of Tomorrow” 

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