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Comment on An Open Letter To Paris Hilton… by Al

Al — Thu, 08 Oct 2009 18:13:37 +0000

You sure are a Dork.

Comment on Yes, The Cheating Will Continue!!!! by unitedwelay

unitedwelay — Mon, 28 May 2007 21:18:05 +0000

I guess I’d better get craking on that divorce, then.

Comment on Yes, The Cheating Will Continue!!!! by Saur

Saur — Thu, 24 May 2007 21:35:13 +0000

Ahhh, so very true, Paul. “The beatings will commence until morale improves”.

Comment on The Anna Nicole Saga by Maria Theresa Sangley from the Phillipines

Maria Theresa Sangley from the Phillipines — Sun, 11 Mar 2007 18:35:17 +0000

It just crossed my mind that maybe, just maybe.. Anna Nicole Smith’s perception of men is greatly affected by her past..childhood, teenage experiences from family and so called friends. We do not know but it could be.. Her personality can be characterized as devoid of self-respect and feeling sorry for herself and as a result thereof she seeks for attention, whether negatively or positively..rather unsure of what comes out of it.. I do not sympathize however because we are all given the free will to chart our own life.. Fate may try to do a show but we can still have full control. Again.. self respect should be at the helm.. Not even fame should supercede that.

You are very right.. that child of hers will carry the brunt of her mother’s escapades or should I call it sexcapades.. The men who now try to say something just want to put on a show.. sure, they are all wimps and many as they are.. they create the imbalance and so.. gentlemen species are becoming extinct.. in fact, they are now becoming the abnormal in human society.. we find more derelicts and delinquents in the streets than the good natured lads.. what can we say.. shall we curse the parents that engendered them??? back to Smith.. she ruined her own reputation and life.. a real pro in the cheating scheme.. she also created her own hell while alive… Life’s like that,, just for her.. unmindful that she created a great impact on the life of her child who is too young to even rationalize on what went on and how.. I am sure.. your opinion and some others who think the same way will be appreciated in due time by that child whose welfare you thought of.

Comment on A Few Words On Cheating.. by Saur

Saur — Fri, 05 Jan 2007 13:32:40 +0000

Dr. Paul, I remember your telling me that second story when you heard about it (the man keeping the info as ammo). At the time I thought is was funny, and yet a sad statement of what some people think marriage / monogamous relationships are all about.

I agree with you about the cheating, but IMHO there’s little distinction between 1st and 2nd degree cheating. A cheater’s an *sshole, and that’s that.

P.S. Because I know you personally, I happen to know that you are as faithful and loyal to your mate as a man could be, which is very admirable.

OH…one more thing. There’s no doubt about what cheating IS, but what about someone who “cheats” on his Other Half by doing drugs on the sly?

Comment on Lingerie by QZ

QZ — Thu, 04 Jan 2007 17:32:21 +0000

oooooooooooooooook. I’m getting lost on this. so you are referring to nylons and not pantyhose? and from my meanderings about in the world of opinions, magazine articles, and other such word of mouth, I’ve heard that once in the bedroom, the man is not really focusing on the looks of the butt part too much, he is just enjoying the encounter. men are visual yes, butt they are also just happy to get it at all, take what you can man. how about a nice discussion over here about what women like in the bedroom?

Comment on A Few Words On Cheating.. by QZ

QZ — Thu, 04 Jan 2007 17:26:01 +0000

i tend to agree with the lazy. there is usually a reason, and also, you forgot to mention that emotional cheating can be just as devastating as physical cheating. they both eat away at the core foundation of what a marriage is all about. and also? there is a fine line between an opinion and a judgement. I would also say, that the old saying “once a cheater always a cheater” is not true. Sometimes life finds you in very difficult places, and you do things you would never do otherwise. When circumstances change, and healing happens, you look back and realize that is a place you will never go again. period. and that involves determination and strength of will, a great character trait. So what I am saying, is there are people out there with great character traits who fall, and who cheat in some of the ways you mentioned.

Comment on A Few Words On Cheating.. by lazy iguana

lazy iguana — Thu, 04 Jan 2007 17:00:03 +0000

Huh. I kind of like the “place the evidence in the safety deposit box” idea. The “bring forth onto me 100 women that you may either watch or join in with” plan would also work, but seems just a little “over the top”. I have delusions of grandeur, but not that grand. I am not Nero Caesar or anything.

I have to wonder one thing however. For someone to cheat – there has to be some sort of motive. People who are happy are less likely to risk what they already have for an unknown. I guess.

Comment on A Few Words On Cheating.. by emma

emma — Thu, 04 Jan 2007 16:58:07 +0000

Hello via Saur’s blog.

Those stories…wow.

Comment on Lingerie by Patrick Highland

Patrick Highland — Fri, 01 Dec 2006 14:51:53 +0000

Hey Paul good article email me please so I know you received this thanks